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When I think of anything worth fighting for or pursuing in my life, I believe it’s best to take an “all or nothing” approach. You might think that’s a little extreme but think of it like this…
When you work, don’t you want to be the best at what you do? I know for me if I’m not willing to push myself to be the best, I wouldn’t deserve anything beyond my effort level.
When you love, shouldn’t you love with all you have? If you don’t… You’re creating a void in your relationship and whether sooner or later, that void of holding back will tear you apart.
If you live your life in fear of getting hurt or failing, you’ll never know when to appreciate when your hard work or love is reciprocated.
Search for balance.
In all things, balance is necessary. Focus on surrounding yourself with people who give just as much as they take. Focus on being your best and following your heart.
And since many of you enter into things unbalanced (i.e. relationships) you’re preventing yourselves from having a solid foundation. If your ex calls you or texts you and you lose sight of the path you were on, you aren’t over them. But are you not over them because you refuse to truly let go, being blinded by the “good”? Or do you refuse to move on because you either a) don’t know how to let go. B) don’t want to let go. C) can’t let go.
How to let go of the past: Choose your own happiness.
If you want to ever truly be happy you can’t do so by living in the past. It’s done. You can’t change it… Stop trying.
Hope this was what at least a few of you needed to hear right now :)
